The 5 essential dildos that will encourage your sex
In Victorian times there was a disease called "female hysteria" that was diagnosed to every woman who presented symptoms such as insomnia, fluid retention, irritability, headaches, loss of appetite and if that were not enough, the "tendency to cause problems."
At that time, female hysteria was cured with a pelvic massage, which we know today as "fingering." Considering that repressed sexual desire of women was seen as an illness, it was the doctor duty to make them reach an orgasm; at first with manual stimulation and then, from 1870 on, with a dildo.
Lots of things have changed since then. A study conducted on 3,800 women, between 18 and 68 years old, revealed that dildos improve sexual function apart from promoting healthy behaviours. According to the same study, 83% used it to stimulate the clitoris and 64% used it inside of the vagina.
Nowadays, this small, or not so small erotic toy is the best-selling of the market, with sales of more than 1 million units a year.
We present a short list of dildos you can now find on the market and how to use them:
- Vaginal penetration:it's the most common way of using a dildo, either because it can be done alone or in company. The intensity of penetration will depend on who it uses: if you are that kind of people that enjoy with a fast and strong penetration, all you have to do is select the maximum speed and y hurry it up with hands; if instead you prefer something softer and slower, just choose a smaller dildo; don't take it at full speed and slow down your hands' rhythm. In both cases, do not forget to use lubricant.
- Anal penetration: very similar to what is mentioned above but with the difference that the gateway is located on the opposite side. In that case choose a smooth and steady dildo, as butty doesn't like softy stuff and moreover that makes a big mess. The best ones for that kind of uses are those that are made with crystal and in this case lubrication is vital too. If you are still a beginner, the first time can be annoying, even painful. If so, hold on 30 seconds and you will see how the pleasure is on its way.
- Strap-on: with this harness you will be the penetration queen. Use it with him or her, either inside the vagina or the anus and without hands! These types of harness can vary in colour, size and shape but they all have something in common: the hole where dildo is inserted. Try to penetrate your partner from behind and at the same time rub the penis or clitoris.
- Double: it's the most romantic dildo because it allows you to look at the person in the eyes while you are penetrating each other. It's not very easy to use because it needs a lot of practice if you want to make the most of it. Ideally, first insert the shorter end into the vagina and once inside, insert the other part (the longest) in the other person's vagina. Once the two parts are put in place, distribute the weight of the bodies and gradually everything will start to be easier and morbid.
- Hot and Cold: there are dildos that can be heated or cooled depending on the feeling you want to feel. The crystal ones are great for this use as well as metal or stone. Of course, crystal is a very delicate material, so if the intention es to have yor best screw of your life, let crystal for champagne glasses.
If you want to use sex toys with the girls, please feel free!.Don't you know how to introduce the topic? It is best to be clear and direct, saying for example: "Honey, I'd like to make you enjoy more, how about if we use a dildo?", No girl would reject a proposal like this; be assured!
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